If I Had A Social Media Hammer
OK, I have to state right up front that I’m NOT defending the landlord who is suing the woman who tweeted about her moldy apartment.
BUT…
In reading the online reaction to the story, my feeling is that many tech people of the social media persuasion are trying to have it both ways. They want to wield social media as a hammer. But don’t like when the hammer comes down on them (but then, who would?).
On the one hand, they preach to the corporations and business people that are trying to increase revenue and gain marketshare and improve profits that social media is a conversation. A conversation that you can’t “control.” That the marketplace is talking about you – and undoubtedly saying bad things – whether you’re listening or not. So you really ought to be listening. Social media is a great listening tool, so get on board the love train!
And I agree. Absolutely agree.
But on the other hand, let the conversation spin out of the TWEETER’S control, and suddenly it doesn’t feel so nice to be out of control.
Because face it: for every positive motivational quote and touchy-feely relationship that’s made on twitter (and they are real, I’ve even some of my own), there sure is a lot of grousing going on. In fact, social media advocates sure can be a bunch of whiners. (And yikes, I just realized I sound like that Senator – Gramm, I think it was?….ugh – who called America a nation of whiners.)
But think about it. The evidence is there. If I had the time, I’d go back and copy-and-paste the tweets. “Oh, United Airlines, you broke my guitar. I’m going social media on your ass!”
“I’m surprised at how slow x company is to respond to my request for support. Fail!”
“I’m so upset at _____ company. I’m thinking of doing a United Airlines video on them!”
(OK, so I did find a few tweets to paste in.)
Now, I’m the first one to rise up against the powers-that-be. I don’t like bullies or bullying tactics. And protesting, protesting loudly, is not bullying when the protesters are not part of the power structure. So don’t get me wrong: I’m all for protesting.
But to some extent, social media people are whiners and bullies in their own right.
And here’s another perspective: contrast the recent events and tweets surrounding the election in Iran with the rather-petulant tweets of the twitterati-disenfrachised class: “I want my Comcast!” How petty the latter seem in comparison to the former.
And, my final thought on the subject: I’ve seen some posts and tweets that note that the tenant tweeter “only” had 22-or-so followers, a note which is quickly followed by the implicit “so what’s the big deal” question. As if only 22 followers minimizes the tweet. But those same people usually hold that part of the true power of social media is that one tweet can resonate virally, globally…and be tweeted and re-tweeted endlessly. Isn’t that still true?
You can’t have it both ways.
Either social media is a conversation that “you can’t control” or isn’t.
So sue me. : )
7 Comments to If I Had A Social Media Hammer
Patrick-
You cover a ton of ground here, but I will try and stick with the landlord/tenant twitter issue.
I think what people are pointing out is that since the person “only” had 22 followers, this story would never have risen to anyone’s attention until Horizon decided to go to DefCon 5. The reaction was not commensurate with the tweet, and that is why now Horizon has a huge PR problem on its hands. At least, that was my perspective when I tweeted it.
To your point about “whiners,” I would suggest the following. All of us, at one time or another, have felt pushed around and abused by “fill in the blank” faceless company. What social media SOMETIMES can do is level the playing field and give schmoes like you and me a chance to get some satisfaction from United, Comcast, Coke, Bank of America, AT&T or whomever. Years of frustration can sometimes erupt sideways (your “whiners” take), but the mistake that poor communicators always make is in not remembering to let the other person(s) feel “felt” or simply acknowledged. You might not fix my problem, but if I know that I spoke to “Maria from United” and she actually seemed to give a damn that my guitar was broken, that can go a long way toward ameliorating the situation.
To quote our President, I don’t know all the facts, but it seems as if Horizon acted stupidly. But none of us who have ever rented from a big property management group will be able to muster up too much sympathy for them. And that is the precise point that they miss, and they just made it a million times worse for themselves.
Matt –
Thanks for your comment. I WAS trying to cover a lot of ground in that post – thanks for noticing. Because I think the landlord/tenant issue is a no-brainer – what goofball landlord would sue someone for $50 million thousand dollars for that tweet. It’s like the woman who sued Apple for $1 Million for the price-cut on the iPhone. Silly, probably stupid, definitely an overreaction.
But the issue is a good jumping-off point, I think, for a discussion about other issues: how social media can best be used. Me, I see a creeping sense of crowd-thuggery, to coin a term. It’s crowdsourcing gone wrong, lol. An explicit “threat” from a social media throng that can end up convicting the wrong people, and without a proper trial, to stretch the metaphor.
I LOVE the power that the internet puts into our hands. I see it as an incredible levelling of the playing field. Governments and all other forms of power can no longer hide (very well or for very long) what they’re doing.
But if social media becomes a hammer for every whining customer complaint, or just a medium for viral gossip that doesn’t know how to really report facts (was the tweeters statement that “Who said sleeping in a moldy apartment was bad for you? HORIZON REALTY THINKS IT’S OKAY.” – emphasis mine – even good reporting?), then I’m just a little disappointed.
So I’m just sending up a little warning flare. : )
Patrick – Not sure if I missed this with what the story is, but this wasn’t an all out twitter battle. The way I see it, someone posted a negative about a company and then said company filed a lawsuit. How is that social media hitting us back? Hmm..
Here were my two cents on it (link: http://konstructr.com/horizon-realtys-blunder/). Let me know what you think.
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Vik –
Thanks for your comment. I don’t know, maybe I wasn’t as clear as I could be. : ) My main point is that many social media enthusiasts feel empowered by social media. Rightly so. But social media can also be used as a hammer – wrongly so, in my opinion – to blast any and every business some tweeter may have a problem with. In the renter’s particular case, it’s probably true that nothing good OR bad would have come from her tweet. Probably. But stop using the incredible technology of social media to whine about every little inconvenience you may suffer, while fully EXPECTING that the company you complain about should tremble in fear because you’ll bring down the wrath of social media crowdsourcing on them, while NOT expecting any possible repercussions (like lawsuits or someone dredging up YOUR dirty digital laundry).
My post was less about the reaction of the landlord and how businesses like theirs should be getting on the social media bandwagon, than about how social media is sometimes being used by it’s very evangelists as an inappropriate hammer.
That’s a subtle way of tinhknig about it.
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July 28, 2009